Thick Condoms

Dear Avoiding,

Condom manufacturers strongly suggest you do not wear more than one condom at a time. If they are not adequately lubricated there is an increased likelihood that one or both of the condom will burst from the friction of latex on latex. If they are lubricated well enough to avoid that then one will likely slip off.

So as a general rule please do not waer more than one condom at a time.

Now while this advice may be sound it doesn't really help you with your problem. Perhaps there are a few things you can try. One is this numbing jell you refer to. You probably are referring to the Maintain product from Durex. It is very easy to use too much of this product. And if you do, well, that it's for pokey!

Look at it this way: as in anything else in life practice makes perfect. If you have a problem with premature ejaculation then it will require effort and practice to get over it. If Maintain causes you to lose your erection then try cutting down the amount you use. Or if you want try to use the Durex Performax condom which contains some of the same substance but in a small premeasured amount.

Put a condom on without your partner and practice being able to stroke yourself without bringing yourself to climax. Get your partner to help. Don't look at when you climax as a problem. Look at it as a process. The more you practice holding your climax the better you will. Here's an article we dug up on Kegel exercises for men. Read through it and practice and I'm sure you feel the results.

Now in this process you may find it helpful to use a thicker condom. We have just the one for you: Trojan Extra Strength. At .09mm in thickness it is far thicker than pretty much any other condom available in the United States. If you couple this with a bit of Maintain and a heaping of practice with the kegels I suspect you'll be on your way to outlasting all but the most devoted partners!

- That Other Condom Guru